Sometimes the butterflies we feel in our stomach just refuse to fly
anymore. Our hearts no longer beat fast at the sound of their voice. It
is a sign you are looking for something else.
1: Disagreements break out into arguments: Disagreeing
is a part of life, and positive debates and arguments are the better
part of a healthy relationship that allows you to learn of and bond with
your other. In this scenario, I’m talking about flat-out yelling,
screaming, and tantrum explosions. Where there are really no arguments
rather than attempts at one-sided force or driving the other away.
2: The thought of them or their presence brings a negative feeling: This
one is pretty extreme but it does happen. Simply the sight of them
entering the room is enough to lower your mood and depress you; this
also goes hand in hand with any thought of them lowers your mood. If
there is enough conflict and negativity, this is a definite possibility.
3: You don’t understand each other:
Mystery is a good thing between people. Sometimes you don’t know why
someone does something, but surprises are good though! This negative
type of misunderstanding that I’m warning you of comes from not being in
tune with your partner. Usually, you can tell what your partner will do
next, with the exception of major surprise. The more your partner feels
like a stranger, the greater the chance of there not being a
relationship.
4: You don’t feel like making the effort for each other:
Think of your friend or your partner. Would you make a sandwich for
them? How about taking them out to dinner? How about drive them 30
minutes to their work? … Although these are all increasing in
“Difficulty” you probably would do 2 or all of them for a friend or your
love, at least once. All of these require effort. If you don’t want to
do it for them… or anything at all. Then your relationship might be
having some major problems and will need help before you get to
repairing relationships.
5: You stop caring:
You don’t think of your friend or love anymore… More importantly, when
they come to mind, it doesn’t elicit any emotion or extra thoughts about
them. You need to have trust in a relationship to avoid any love
problems or potential martial problems.
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